Welcome to Getting Real with Hilary

Getting Real with Hilary is your space to break free from people-pleasing and step into your true, unstoppable self. Through powerful conversations, inspiring stories, and actionable tools, we help you get unstuck and start creating a life you love.

From engaging interviews with everyday heroes to insightful content, newsletters, and books, we offer resources to entertain, empower, and support your journey. Whether you’re looking for motivation, validation, or a push to take action, you’re in the right place.

Join us on this journey of transformation—because the real you is worth it!

about me

Hi, I'm Hilary!

For years, I avoided conflict, stayed quiet, and pretended I was fine—until I realized I wasn’t.

“Getting Real” is my journey of speaking up, embracing discomfort, and owning my truth. Now, I help others do the same.

I’ve written three books, host a weekly show, and share insights through my newsletter, YouTube, and TikTok.

My mission?

To help you find your voice, clarify your purpose, and create a life you love. 

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to say exactly what was on your mind instead of keeping it all in? What if everything you’ve always wanted could be made possible by practicing the art of REAL TALK

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My book

Real Talk

How to Say the Things You’ve Never Said So You Can Have the Things You’ve Always Wanted

In her new book, REAL TALK, Hilary Arnow Burns, host of the Getting Real With Hilary Show, reveals the real cost of not speaking up: broken marriages, lost jobs, and profound unhappiness.

Using her signature Getting Real Process, Ms. Burns teaches women and men how to finally get what they’ve always wanted by harnessing the power of Real Talk.

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to say exactly what was on your mind instead of keeping it all in? What if everything you’ve always wanted could be made possible by practicing the art of REAL TALK

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Are You a Good Listener? You Might Be Surprised | Christine Miles

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Showing People He Is Not Broken | Sam Mitchell
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Trained herself out of Panic Attacks and Anxiety | Felicia Nagamatsu
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Say Goodbye to Your Money and Your Citizenship - Richard Jay Hutto
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What if everything you’ve always wanted could be made possible by practicing the art of REAL TALK

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to say exactly what was on your mind instead of keeping it all in

October is national Speak Up Month. It’s a chance for us all to reflect on the importance of speaking up and the value it brings to our organisation.
NHS national guardian Dr Jayne Chidgey-Clark explains why breaking barriers is the key focus for Speak Up Month 2023.
When employees at every level speak up, they circulate local knowledge, expand the universe of useful ideas, and prevent collective tunnel vision. And not infrequently, minority views turn into novel solutions. But you can’t speak a speak-up culture into existence — doing so in the absence of true psychological safety is an abdication of leadership and an admission of failure. The author presents four steps leaders can take to create conditions that give all employees a voice — and motivate them to use it: 1) Separate worth from worthiness; 2) separate loyalty from agreement; 3) separate status from opinion; and 4) separate permission from adoption.